Ep0 - "And Now Your Hosts ..." with The Rabbi and LilBit

Ep0 - "And Now Your Hosts ..." with The Rabbi and LilBit

Introduction To Your Hosts ...

The Rabbi was born to kink on International Sex Day, The Rabbi (he/him) is a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy-dom. He creates unique toys with sadistic flair that make the prop master on Cutthroat Kitchen jealous. He is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor and Certified Sex Therapist. With his partner (and ADHD squirrel wrangler), LilBit, the Rabbi has presented for groups including Guild of Deviated Standards; Beyond Leather, Wicked Grounds; Frolicon; DomCon; & FetishCon.

LilBit (she/her) joined the Leather community in 2012 in a submissive role through a D/s relationship which taught her about power exchange and her pony identity. She's been exploring her switch tendencies and little/brat side. She is Ms. Valley Leather 2016, Ms. Tri-State Leather 2018; a member of Miami Valley Pets and Handlers; Ohio Leather Alliance, Tri-State Leather, and Women of Drummer. LilBit enjoys learning/teaching ASL and interpreting at kink events. 

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SINagogue hosts and guests are subject matter experts but not *the* expert. We believe outside of violating consent, there's no wrong way to kink except to think your way is the only way. The show is presented from a RACK (Risk-Aware Consentual Kink) point of view, not SSC (Safe Sane Consentual) because each person’s definition of safe is different based on their risk profile. Use of the word "safe" on the show fits our definition, and that doesn't have to be your definition. 

Reminder, we try to make our content as inclusive as possible regardless of gender, orientation, role in the lifestyle, etc., but we do inherently speak from our own point of view. We want to learn from our mistakes. If you feel like we said something offensive, let us know. Reach out via our website or call us at 469-269-0403.

Today’s show was brought to you in part by the letters S and M, and the Number 69. 

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Transcript

With me today is my partner my ADHD squirrel wrangler my submissive my brat my
little my pony or just my little pony the ricky to my Lucy a little bit hey
everybody this is episode number zero because we're just here to talk about
ourselves and give you a little introduction to who we are but first a word
from our sponsor so I am your host the rabbi I am the co-host a little bit
let's see a little bit about ourselves I will start with me because I know me
best that's a surprise I should hope so I was born on international sex day or
June 9th written short hand as six nine I identify with he/him pronouns and I am
assist gender and Bomorius Gynosexual sadistic bratty daddy Dom because
everybody always asks and Bomorius I'm good in both mono and poly
relationships Gynosexual I am attracted to femininity in its many forms
people have called me the Prince of Pervertables the Pied Piper of rats in the
caretop of kink and I think that last one was a compliment I create my own
fun little toys with a sadistic flair that make the prop master on cutthroat
kitchen jealous including ceiling fan paddles Lego nipple clamps and a mop
head flogger and a toy I like to call a bruise bear which is a teddy bear that
has been filled with construction from and turned into a paddle I have
electrified people with slinkies broken all ten commandments over somebody's
ass and hit people with everything I can get my hands on including a literal
kitchen sink by day I'm a licensed professional counselor and certified sex
therapist by night I'm a kink educator who has with my partner here little bit
presented on kink and related topics in person and virtually for groups
nationally and internationally ranging from guild of you deviated standards
Planned Parenthood beyond leather wicket grounds
Prawlacon Domcon fetishcon star track to the wrath of con and many more 90
different classes for more than 35 groups on 16 different topics I received the
2022 leather leadership conference new leader grant and that's who I am
Wow that's a hard introduction to follow so I am a little bit I am a kinky queer
like bisexual pansexual I love lump those two together in my own little head
leather woman I am a submissive actually a bottom heavy switch identify mostly a
submissive but if the vibe is right and all of that good stuff then I am a switch
let's see here what else should I talk about I educate with my partner here the
rabbi I have taught classes on pony play assisted in lots of demo bottoming with
him so some of the classes that I teach since you brought up that topic dollar store
domination chain fisting age play body drumming electro play with and without the
violet wand a teacher class on this theory fire play cell popping quills
gwasha bratty daddies bratting body language scene negotiation with strangers
knife play and more coming all the time yes you have quite the line up especially
confined all of the lineup of classes of what you have taught as well as upcoming
classes on your website on our website our website sorry synagogue bdsm that's
in with an eye because I'm extra like that totally extra with all the glitter let's see
what else what else do I do besides wrangle you let's see tenify us a leather
woman I have done a class on cigar service I've actually co-hosted that with a
very good friend of mine which I was absolutely thrilled to do I have taught as
classes both local and for other folks who have asked to do some basic learning for
asl and how to be respectful to deaf culture let's see here I have also
interpreted for different kink events which has been one of the ways that I have
been thrilled to be able to help give back to my local community I am a title holder
ta ta ta ta yeah I'm a title holder for Valley Regional Miss 2000 or Miss Miss
Leather for 2015 and then Miss Tri State Leather 2018 your secret origin story
into kink my secret origin story oh goodness I don't know about that you don't
know how you got into kink oh no I know how I got into kink I don't know if it's
quite you know that much of a secret so way back when I would know we're not
gonna go that far back it's one of those things I've always been drawn to
interested in and such like that for far longer than what I recognize as being
kink but it wasn't until later on that I was able to go to actually my first
Leather event a local event where they had demos for flogging which was
absolutely fantastic that I was going yep I definitely want to try that fast
forward shortly into a weekend pony play intensive which was absolutely
phenomenal and amazing and as I've just gone on kind of the rest has been
history so that's me and in that shell
so my secret origin story into kink many years ago I was dating
this girl I lost my job she broke up with me because I didn't have a job which
sucked but we had she had while we were dating asked me if I knew what a
munch was of course I immediately looked it up through the Google and lied and
said I did after we broke up I couldn't you know just make a job appear out of
the air but what I could do to try to win her back was learn all about this kink
thing and be the best kink person I could possibly be not knowing anyone else who
was really into kink I of course turned to the one person I did know and that was
the person who I'd been talking to on okay cupid before the girlfriend I knew
she was kinky because she told me she was a rigor and I asked her where she went
rock climbing around these parts so we went to dinner she's telling me about the
various forms of power exchange master slave Dom sub daddy Dom little girl I
went ooh that's it that's me what is that and I was hooked from there looking
back you know all the signs were there my high-scroll girlfriend for example broke
up with me because she said I acted more like a parent than a boyfriend and yeah
now that makes sense totally just needed to find the person who complimented
that and I think I have so yeah I've been doing that since then tied into that I
was seeing my own therapist at the time she was great she was wonderful but she had
no idea about kink and stuff which was fine for me because if I could explain all
these concepts to her like power exchange then I knew I understood them but I
also realized that if I had been in the lifestyle for years and years and
years having to explain this stuff to somebody would really suck and would be a
barrier to therapy which is how I got the idea part of how I got the idea of to
go back to school to be a therapist and to be a sex therapist and to work with
the Kinggan poly communities never actually went back for the girl but yeah
I think it turned out all right in the end yeah you're a good replacement
I mean well you know I mean the other half that inspired me to be a sex
therapist is three times in a week I had to explain to a platonic female friend
how to how to find their own G spot and I went damn it I'm doing this way too much
to be doing it for free so between those two that's what pointed me in this
direction and I haven't looked back since that's a good thing anything else we
should share in this our introductory episode I'm not sure part of me is also
curious as to if we have our listeners like to be able to send questions to be
able to help answer you know just a little bit more about us each time yes and how
to contact us is it the thing that's at the end of the show every week but you can
contact us through the website synagogue bdsm.com again send with an i and we also
have a hotline you can call the number is 469 to 69 0403

[B Back to Part 2]
Yes. I deliberately got that number.
I'm not surprised.
All right. Well, uh, that does it for this our introductory episode.
Say goodnight, little bit.
Goodnight, little bit.
[ Silence ]